I think there's no single answer to this question.
I know taking breaks in relationships is always a sign of serious strain and troubles.
Sometimes, taking a break may be a sign of an imminent breakup.
And sometimes it could be the beginning of something wonderful.
Either way, it's important to take the time to work on yourself, to make yourself stronger and more independent.
Most likely there is an imbalance of power in the relationship which needs to be altered.
It may have been a little too smothering and clingy.
I feel I'm distancing myself, and may have been caught in that vicious cycle for a long time.
If handled correctly I believe a break can be an opportunity to readjust that imbalance.
If we are able to keep our cool, take care of ourselves on our own, and not seem too desperate, we will gain a lot of worth both in my own eyes and those of my partners.
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